Happy Fourth of July!

I am an equal opportunity holiday celebrator. To me, all holidays are the same…big, small, national, local, or just family tradition…I love celebrating things!

Cousins are over playing together, food is marinating (it seems wrong to have mexican food on July 4th, but it tastes so right), grill is heating, and I’m hoping to sneak a nap in sometime soon. We’ve got an arsenal of fireworks and finally I found sparklers, so all’s well.

Happy 4th, everyone!

My creation

Storm.

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The thunderstorms are blowing through lately, most of them have stayed a fair distance away so we only see the thunderheads. Which is just fine with Golfer, because he’s still dealing with a rather traumatic storm in ‘07 that rocked his world. It was nonstop thunder/lightning for about 45 minutes, right over the top of our house. Power went down, it was really dark, and he freaked out.



Sassy, on the other hand, thought it was the best thing she’d ever seen or heard. At 3, she had a limited vocabulary to express what she was thinking, but her enthusiasm comes through. She may be 5 now, but she’s maintained that same verve, and in fact has ramped it up a little. Man, she’s exhausting.

Thunderstorms in Summer rock. Unless a tornado accompanies them, in which case they do not rock.

First Summer Harvest!

60 days ago, Sassy put little seeds into the dirt, patted them down, watered them, and then checked on them every day thereafter. Then we left for California for 3 weeks. Then, when we came back, she discovered just how much they had grown!

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Even better, she noticed the actual pea pods!

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So, one morning, she and I got on our harvesting aprons and set to work.

Two Peas in a Pod.

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First Pea of the Season!

Our haul:

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As you can see, she was a much more diligent harvester of peas.

As Sassy went around collecting pea pods, I heard her whisper, “thank you, pea plant!” every time she’d break one off. It’s nothing I taught or told her to do, I think it comes from putting in all the work beforehand to get the pea plants to grow. It’s just one of the reasons I love to garden with my kids.

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2e Tuesday: The Big Picture.

Big Picture

As the kids and I navigate through 2e learning and unschooling, one thing has become clear to me…it’s all about the big picture. It’s not good enough to learn something because it’ll be on a test, or because I say so, or because the state standards say so. To my kids, the why’s of learning are as important as the who, what, when, and where’s. In fact, probably more important. Because without a framework, without some kind of connection or value for the information, then learning doesn’t happen.

While in California on our vacation (ahem…educational experience) we spent the day at the Griffith Observatory. In the building there was scores of placards, signs, and detailed information about how the universe works and what you find in it. We could have spent the whole day painstakingly reading each one, with me quizing them about what they’d learned at the end of it. (And, there was a time that’s what I would have done!) Instead, I channeled my inner Walt Whitman, who wrote one of my most favorite poems ever:

When I heard the Learn’d Astronomer
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“WHEN I heard the learn’d astronomer;
When the proofs, the figures, were ranged in columns before me;
When I was shown the charts and the diagrams, to add, divide, and measure them;
When I, sitting, heard the astronomer, where he lectured with much applause in the lecture-room,
How soon, unaccountable, I became tired and sick;
Till rising and gliding out, I wander’d off by myself,
In the mystical moist night-air, and from time to time,
Look’d up in perfect silence at the stars.”

That is Big Picture thinking. Whitman might have been taught all the who, what, when, and where’s of astronomy, but it was only when experiencing a connection to the universe by wandering around at night, did he really learn anything at all. I love that so much.

So, we used the “Big Picture” way of gathering information. This way is less linear and way less ‘testable’, but that’s not the point anyway. The point is to find a connection to the material in order to foster a desire to know more about it. So, we flitted from one cool picture to another–sometimes reading about it, sometimes not. I napped on the lawn while the kids wrestled. We saw two amazing movies in the planetarium and really felt our tiny place in the universe. We made s’mores in the car and ate a Milky Way bar at a ‘Cafe at the End of the Universe’. I let the kids take the lead and stop at the things they found interesting, and pass by the things they didn’t.

The bottom line, whether or not they could pass a test on astronomy, is that in a Big Picture way they connected to it. They tuned in to it. They spent a day feeling happy about it, so the next time astronomy is brought up they’ll want to know more. It was a great day full of the experiences that I love them to have…little silken threads that make up a web of knowlege.

Big Picture thinking isn’t about reaching a learning ‘goal’ or passing off lessons from a curriculum. It’s more like allowing yourself to be carried along in a current of interest and see where you end up. Obviously, this doesn’t really fly in school, but it can in everyday life, and it does in our unschooling. 2e kids thrive on this. It’s been a fun process for me to watch them undertake.

Here, Naturalist forgoes the telescope to look at things in her own way. So very Whitman of her.
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And we all did, literally, lay down under the stars and feel the night air. A lovely finish to a great day.
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(2 pictures taken by Mike Hedge)

Wishes.

still wishing over here!

her wishes:
*to be a hawk
*to be a fish
*to climb up a rainbow
*to be a butterfly
*to play in a hamster cage

My wish:
*to remember this time with her forever.

Together.

I’m to tired to officially blog, but here’s a little photo essay of the time Sassy and I are spending together now that Naturalist and Golfer are in Summer camps all day:

Blizzards!

mommy daughter date.

Climbing!

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Finding new trails!

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Investigating new floura and fauna!

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Even thinking quietly!

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I even had time to investigate my newest obsession: taking reflection pictures in my aviators!

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At one point, she told me that if Naturalist were still in heaven, then she (Sassy) would be in charge. I reminded her that Golfer would still be around. She said, “If Naturalist and Golfer were still in heaven, THEN I would be in charge all day!” Obviously, we ruined her plans to be an only child. This week, at least, she has a small inkling of how it would feel…and she likes it!

Huntington Beach

I pretty much grew up in Huntington Beach, between the lifeguard stations 9 and 11. Right by the beach bungalow/surf shack/concession stand that made excellent nachos and hot dogs served sliced down the middle and on a hamburger bun.

Just like a butterfly, or salmon, or turtle with a hereditary drive to return to the place of birth, I feel the same when I visit California. It soothes me. This trip was no different, and happily the weather cooperated by keeping the ‘June Gloom’ far away from the beach.

I took 345345345345 pictures, which means it’s video time!

This is for all of you who may not have the chance to beach it up this summer. :)

Summer Salad

This salad started with an actual recipe, which is:

Spinach leaves
Strawberries, cut up
Camembert cheese
cooked bacon, crumbled up
Poppy Seed dressing (my favorite is from Briannas)

Mix everything together and enjoy! This is an elegant and sexy salad, as far as presentation goes…it works great for company or as part of a special meal.

However, I couldn’t leave well enough alone and have turned it into my own favorite summer salad. I hesitate to call this a recipe, which implies combining ingredients together to make something new and unexpected…this is more like–get everything you love, throw it together with some greens, and call it a salad!

Summer Salad love.

So, here’s what it looks like when I do it:

Start with greens. I love spinach, but Todd loves romaine…to each his own!

Cut up all or some, whatever your preference:
strawberries
boiled eggs
green peppers
cucumbers
avocados
corn fresh off the cob
tomatoes
red onions
grapes
mangoes
(any other fruit/veggie you love)
Turkey or
Roast Beef

Add:
Goat cheese or
Camembert or
feta, whatever floats your boat.

I make it into a salad bar, where everyone in the family can pick and choose what they put on their greens from that selection.

Put salad dressing over the top, you really can’t go wrong with any of these.

Et voila! My favorite Summer Salad!

Hello? Is this thing on?

I don’t think I’ve ever NOT blogged for this long since I started blogging. Which was, like, well, I don’t remember not blogging. Even when computer and internet weren’t available, I blogged in this little thing called a ‘Diary’. It involved paper and a pen, and writing things down! Really!

Anyway, it’s hard to get back in the blogging saddle since my vacation (excuse me, I mean, ‘Educational Experience’) ended.

Mostly, it’s because I’ve been so so so busy.

Yum!

Happy Summer!

Happy Father’s Day, Honey!

So, did everyone have a nice Father’s Day?  Did the man of the house get breakfast made for him, and get to watch TV with his feet up?  Did he get to take it easy while everyone else cleaned up around him?  Did he get a great lunch and an even better dinner, just for him? 

In short, was it just like every other day he’s married to you? 

Ha.  I kid because I love. 

This is my hubby when I met him, right after playing basketball for University of Kentucky.  Young, muscley, and hhhhot (if I do say so myself.):

One thing led to another, yada yada yada, we were married a few years later.  He was the kindest, most tenderest, most loving guy I’d ever met.  When I was away from him, I wanted to be close to him.  When I was close to him, I wanted to be closer. 

One thing led to another, yada yada yada, I got pregnant and he became a father!

One just never knows what parenthood will be like until one actually becomes a parent.  This moment was difficult for hubby. 

Once the shock wore off….about when each of them started eating solid foods…it was all good.  And oh,  the fun we all had!  Hubby’s big shoulders are perfect for rides!

He carried both kids through Europe.  And I’m not kidding.

and then there’s this:

But he’s not just good for physical support.  He’s great for moral support to.  Like when you jack up your arm and need someone to snuggle with in the hospital.  And when you need that same person to bellow at the nurses, “We need some Codeine in here NOW” when they are taking to long with the pain meds.  My kids always run to Dad to make them feel better.

He’s also a good guy around to relax and play around with.  He makes the biggest splashes in the pool, for sure.  And he thinks up cool things to do together.

Really, there are lots of reasons why my kids think he’s the #1 Dad in town.

But I have my own special reason why I think he’s tops in my book.

In order to become the worlds best Dad, he made me a mom first.

Big love to all the Pop’s out there who make life a whole lot better!